Christmas: “Thou shalt not follow a multitude to do evil.” Exodus 23:2. It comes as an utter shock to many that some who would identify themselves as simple followers of the Lord Jesus Christ would refuse to participate in Christmas Celebrations and Holiday Traditions. At once, such a person is dismissed as “not really Christian,” branded as belonging to some cultish group, or accused of adopting a smug, superior holiness, as if abstaining meant they believed themselves better than everyone else. “How can you not celebrate Christmas? Don’t you believe in the birth of Christ? What could be possibly wrong with celebrating the birth of the Saviour? If anything is worth celebrating or observing, surely this is? Where would we be if Christ had not been born?” This seems to be the common reaction based upon many years of such personal encounters. Yet the effect is nearly always the same, not pride in refusing what we believe Scripture opposes, but a kind of uncomfortable awkwardness, even a feeling of isolation, as though we’ve stepped outside a circle everyone else treats as sacred.
Although at one point my mind would start racing, and attempt some sort of an explanation, perhaps even from scripture, but nowadays, if I'm pressed, I always simply reply, because I'm not Roman Catholic, which for whatever reason tends to abruptly end the conversation. I imagine because a papist would understand perfectly well what I mean, but a so-called protestant on the other hand, so eager to oppose Rome doctrinally while faithfully keeping her holy days, would hardly know how to answer. I should perhaps add that I’m not walking around with a banner declaring that I don’t celebrate Christmas. When someone says “Merry Christmas,” I thank them kindly. But if someone specifically asks what I’m doing that day, or why we don’t observe it, then I try to answer in a way that is both faithful and kind, speaking truth without harshness.
I first rewrote this paper about three years ago, when my children, already married and joined to spouses who had all grown up with some form of Christmas tradition, and now expected the same, began asking why our family had never observed the holiday. Different households and different expectations inevitably brought new questions. And now that the Lord has blessed us with ten grandchildren, Psalm 127:5, a few of these little ones are no doubt already wondering why they never receive gifts from us. Why didn’t we celebrate then? Why don’t we now? How do we navigate these things without confusion or compromise? The matter that once touched only my own home now touches theirs as well. I never wrote this to correct anyone else’s practice, but to give my children a clear biblical reason for ours, and I pray that the Lord preserves in some of them a desire to remain faithful to those convictions, seeking to honor Christ without losing themselves entirely in the mixture and confusion that surrounds them.
Perhaps here I should insert a word to speak sympathetically to the many who find themselves caught between conviction and circumstance, those brothers or sisters in Christ who, for one reason or another, simply “go along” with Christmas; who perhaps have never questioned Christmas because it has always been their world; and others that have begun to sense the issues surrounding it, yet feel bound by the realities of marriage, extended family, or cultural expectations that are not easily untangled. Some of my own children have married into homes where Christmas is regarded as a sacred institution, an anchor of family identity, memory, and tradition. In those settings, even the slightest hint of withdrawing from the holiday would create enormous strain, both within the marriage and among extended relatives who might view such a choice as a personal rejection rather than a matter of conscience. I understand that dilemma. Many find themselves caught between convictions they quietly hold and the expectations of those they dearly love, torn between conscience and family harmony. These dynamics can be genuinely difficult, and I sympathize with any who find themselves in such situations. My purpose is not to condemn anyone in such a delicate situation, but to acknowledge the weight they carry and to encourage them toward patience, prayer, and a quiet desire to honor Christ as clearly as they are able in the midst of imperfect circumstances.
Yet beyond the personal difficulties many face, there remains a deeper question worth considering. How did such a day ever become woven into Christian practice at all? Church history makes it clear that not everything done in the name of Christianity grew out of Scripture. As the early church drifted into ritual and ceremony, Rome gathered to herself a mixture of pagan custom and religious symbolism, clothing it in Christian language and presenting it as worship. Many of the Reformers saw in this the very system described in Revelation, splendid outwardly yet bound to human tradition, and they recognized in the rise of the papacy a striking counterfeit, a form of Christianity mingled with practices that obscured the simplicity of the gospel. And though the Reformation recovered much precious truth, it did not entirely sever itself from the ceremonial and sacramental patterns inherited from Rome. Over time, these blended practices filtered into wider Christianity until custom often spoke louder than Scripture.
A plain and honest look at history makes it clear that what we now call “Christmas” did not spring from the Scriptures but from pagan festivals later woven into Roman religious tradition. It does not surprise me that the world keeps such a day, (this is entirely expected, John 15:19,) but that so many believers adopt it without a moment’s thoughtful inquiry is a bit puzzling. The sheer fact that millions of ‘Protestants’ are observing a Roman Catholic holy day which has not been commanded anywhere in God’s Word speaks volumes about the deplorable state of the “church.” Few ever ask whether its origins honor Christ, or whether Scripture gives warrant for attaching His name to practices rooted in such “foreign” soil. Instead, the holiday is received out of habit, sentiment, or cultural pressure, and almost no one stops to ask whether the mixture is fitting for those who desire to worship God in truth. Which goes to show how easily tradition overtakes Scripture, and how readily something so foreign to the apostolic faith is embraced simply because it is familiar, rather than because God has spoken. Mark 7:8-9. So, whether or not one takes the traditional Protestant view that Rome is “Mystery Babylon,” the heart of the matter remains the same. Christmas did not arise from Scripture, but from the blending of pagan custom and religious tradition. They “were mingled among the heathen, and learned their works.” Psalms 106:35.
In such a climate, it is easy for the “church” to adopt practices whose origins have little to do with the gospel and much to do with this long history of mixture. When traditions become deeply rooted, especially those passed down for generations, they are seldom questioned, and their sources are rarely examined. But for those whom the Lord has taught to value His Word above all else, this mixture invites thoughtful discernment rather than blind acceptance. In such a setting, it becomes essential for believers to distinguish carefully between what God commands and what history has handed down, for mixture always blurs the line and weakens the clarity of the gospel.
Mixture has always threatened the clarity of truth. It dulls spiritual discernment, blurs the boundaries God has drawn in His Word, and merges what He has commanded with what He has never appointed. “What thing soever I command you, observe to do it; thou shalt not add thereto, nor diminish from it.” Deuteronomy 12:32. Once such blending becomes familiar, it is seldom questioned. Christmas provides a vivid example of this tendency, where sentiment, tradition, and cultural expectation gradually overshadow the plain testimony of Scripture. What God never instituted has been wrapped in “Christian” terminology until it appears entirely acceptable simply because it has become part of the landscape and long familiarity makes it seem right. After all, it feels harmless, wholesome, family-friendly, even virtuous; and when something is wrapped in enough sentiment or carries the name of Christ, few ever stop to ask whether the Lord Himself appointed it.
This is the subtle danger, not the bold rejection of truth, but the unthinking acceptance of practices never appointed by God; not the intentional worship of idols, but the subtle, almost unnoticeable blending of worldly customs with the things of Christ. “And Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, took either of them his censer, and put fire therein, and put incense thereon, and offered strange fire before the LORD, which he commanded them not.” Leviticus 10:1. Mixture always produces confusion and seldom announces itself; it settles in gradually, carried by sentiment and normalized by time, until the distinction between Scripture and custom is nearly erased. And once it takes root, confusion is close behind. When the line between what God commands and what man invents grows thin, Colossians 2:8, the customs themselves begin to take center stage, and Christ is gradually diminished beneath a cloak of human invention.
Throughout Scripture, the Lord repeatedly warns His people against absorbing the religious customs of surrounding cultures, urging them instead to keep their worship distinct and devoted to His revealed will. Israel was told not to learn the ways of the nations or imitate the practices by which they served their gods, Deuteronomy 12:30-32, and the New Testament continues this caution by calling believers to flee idolatry and guard their hearts from its subtler forms. I Corinthians 10:14; I John 5:21. As believers today navigate a world filled with religious blendings and cultural traditions, these passages invite us to examine all things carefully and to seek to honor God’s Word above all.
The seriousness of these warnings reminds us that idolatry is not found only in carved images but also in the subtle adoption of practices that blur the distinction between the worship God commands and the customs of the world. Israel was not merely instructed to avoid idolatrous worship but to remove anything that might draw their hearts toward it. The lesson for us is not to imitate Israel’s physical actions but to heed the spiritual principle behind them, which is that God calls His people to guard the purity of their worship and to remain watchful against any custom that might compromise that purity. “Take heed to thyself, lest thou make a covenant with the inhabitants of the land whither thou goest, lest it be for a snare in the midst of thee; but ye shall destroy their altars, break their images, and cut down their groves, for thou shalt worship no other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God; lest thou make a covenant with the inhabitants of the land, and they go a whoring after their gods, and do sacrifice unto their gods, and one call thee, and thou eat of his sacrifice; and thou take of their daughters unto thy sons, and their daughters go a whoring after their gods, and make thy sons go a whoring after their gods. Thou shalt make thee no molten gods.” Exod.34:12-17.
One of the clearest principles in all of Scripture is that God Himself determines how He is to be worshiped. He has not invited us to embellish His worship with our own inventions, nor to sanctify our customs by attaching His name to them. From the beginning, the Lord drew a firm line between what He commanded and what He did not command, and He repeatedly warned His people not to add to His word or reshape His worship according to their own ideas. Deuteronomy 12:30-32; Matthew 15:9. The worship of God is holy, and Scripture alone is its rule. And history shows that whenever men begin to supplement what God has appointed, however sincere their motives, the purity of worship becomes clouded, and the line between obedience and tradition grows increasingly faint.
Flowing from this principle, it must also be remembered that the Lord has never granted us authority to create holy days of our own choosing. Any festival or observance not instituted by God Himself steps beyond His prerogative and departs from the pattern of worship He has revealed. Scripture consistently teaches that the acceptable way of approaching the Lord is the way He appoints, not the way we imagine or prefer. Deuteronomy 4:2. And while believers are plainly instructed to remember the death and resurrection of Christ, there is no biblical precedent for setting aside a day to celebrate His birth. If such a day had been commanded, the world would not embrace it so freely, for the world has never loved what God commands. Yet the ease with which multitudes observe a religious festival with no scriptural foundation, simply because tradition has handed it down, only shows how far sentiment can carry people beyond the bounds of Scripture.
It speaks volumes that the world so readily embraces Christmas. People who recoil at the doctrines of Christ, who avoid His gospel, and who despise His commandments, nonetheless delight in this day. Why? Because nothing God-appointed stands behind it. What God commands, the world rejects; what God has not required, the world feels perfectly free to adopt. A day never appointed by God gives them room to enjoy religion on their own terms, to feel “spiritual” without bowing to Christ’s authority, without repentance, without submission to His Word. The world cherishes Christmas precisely because it is safe, sentimental, harmless, and undemanding. John 3:19-20.
A Christ kept in the cradle is acceptable to the world; a Christ reigning, dividing, ruling, and calling all men to bow before Him is not. Luke 19:14. The world has no quarrel with an infant wrapped in sentiment and seasonal charm. A harmless child poses no threat to human pride, no challenge to sin, no demand for repentance, no claim to absolute authority. But the Christ of Scripture, the Christ who reigns in the midst of His enemies, who wields a sword that separates truth from error, who calls every knee to bow and every heart to surrender, this Christ the world will not tolerate.
Moving from the issue of worship to the matter of dates, Scripture is just as clear by its silence as it is by its commands, and it gives no indication whatsoever that December 25 marks the birth of Christ. Scripture offers no month, no season, no hint of a particular day. And though many have tried to supply what Scripture intentionally leaves silent, the most careful historians and theologians, those free from sentimental bias, are nearly unanimous in concluding that Christ’s birth could not have occurred in late December. Knowing the human heart’s tendency to enshrine moments and create holy days of its own, it seems fitting that God veiled the exact date of Christ’s birth, much as He concealed the resting place of Moses’ body. Deuteronomy 34:5-6. Whatever the reason, there is nothing in Scripture that ties the incarnation to that specific day. Its selection came later, when Rome chose to dress an existing pagan celebration in Christian terminology, an effort that has proven remarkably enduring.
How can we truly honor Christ or uphold the gospel by choosing to celebrate His birth at a time that Scripture never appoints and that historical evidence overwhelmingly disproves? When those who profess His name enthusiastically embrace a date rooted in fiction and surround it with a mixture of Papal and pagan elements - Santa Claus, decorated trees, glittering lights, mistletoe, gift exchanges, yule logs, wreaths, and the like - what message does that send to the world? If Christians treat a known fiction as sacred and fill it with borrowed myths, why should unbelievers take seriously our testimony when we speak the truth? A witness that blends fantasy with faith only weakens the credibility of the truth it claims to uphold.
Moreover, the fairytale atmosphere surrounding what the world calls the Christmas “story” has so overwhelmed the biblical record that whatever gospel clarity remains is often lost beneath layers of sentiment and imagination. The true mystery of godliness, “God manifest in the flesh,” I Timothy 3:16, is overshadowed by seasonal embellishments that bear little resemblance to Scripture. In the end, what the world calls Christmas stands in stark contrast to the biblical account, and for that very reason we should be slow to place human tradition alongside divine revelation, lest we unintentionally obscure the glory of Christ behind customs He never commanded.
Even the name itself should give thoughtful believers pause. The word Christmas comes from Cristes Maesse, an early English phrase meaning “Mass of Christ,” a title that joins the holy name of the Lord Jesus with the Roman Catholic Mass. In Rome’s system, the Mass is regarded as the chief act of worship, in which the priest claims to transform bread and wine into the literal body and blood of Christ, a practice rooted in the doctrine of transubstantiation. By treating the elements as a fresh offering of Christ, the Mass presents His sacrifice as something repeated rather than finished. In this way, it symbolically reenacts the crucifixion, implying an atonement that must be continually offered. Such a position strikes at the heart of the gospel by undermining the sufficiency of Christ’s death and the finality of His redemptive work. At its core, the Roman Catholic Mass is a denial, however piously framed, of the once-for-all sacrifice of Christ. For this reason, believers should consider carefully what it means to adopt a term and a tradition so closely tied to a system that redefines the very work of the Savior.
Once the work of Christ is redefined, whether by ritual or by sentiment, it is easy for the world to embrace a softened, diminished version of the Savior. This same tendency appears in how Christmas shifts attention from the Redeemer’s finished work to the sentimental scene of His infancy. While the world lingers sentimentally over the picture of a harmless infant lying in a manger, Scripture itself gives surprisingly little attention to the circumstances of Christ’s birth and instead directs us to the purpose of His coming. Instead of dwelling on the scene, it lifts our eyes to the substance. The glory of the Incarnation is not bound up in shepherds, swaddling cloths, or a Bethlehem night, but in the One who is “the image of the invisible God,” Colossians 1:15, taking on flesh, John 1:14, to consummate the work of redemption appointed by the Father. Galatians 4:4-5.
The birth was never intended to stand on its own as a season of celebration; it was the first step in the redemptive work that would climax in His death, resurrection, and ascension. Yet by dwelling endlessly on the cradle, the world turns aside from the Christ who came to destroy the works of the devil, I John 3:8, to put away sin by His own sacrifice, Hebrews 9:26, and to carry out the Father’s purpose perfectly. John 6:38. Christmas, then, recasts what Scripture declares with weight and wonder into something merely soothing, reducing the Incarnation from a redemptive triumph to a harmless holiday scene.
Some will say that Christmas falls under “Christian liberty,” but it is important to remember what liberty actually is. Christian liberty is indeed a precious truth, yet it is often misunderstood. It does not grant believers the right to invent worship or establish holy days of their own; rather, it frees us from the traditions of men and the bondage of the law. Galatians 5:1. Scripture teaches that matters of liberty belong to things indifferent, areas where God has neither commanded nor forbidden. Romans 14:5. But worship is never indifferent. Liberty is not the freedom to reshape worship according to our preferences, but the freedom to obey Christ without the burdens others may try to impose. Matthew 15:9. It applies to matters where Scripture is silent about daily conduct, not where God has spoken concerning how He is to be approached. In worship, God alone sets the terms, and liberty serves to keep the conscience free from human invention, not to authorize new religious observances. Colossians 2:16-17. When we speak of liberty, therefore, we must do so in a way that honors the Lord’s own boundaries. John 4:24.
Christian liberty does not give us new holy days; it gives us Christ, and in Him the believer possesses a continual feast. “I am the bread of life, he that cometh to me shall never hunger; and he that believeth on me shall never thirst.” John 6:35. Gratitude, worship, and meditation on the Person of Christ are not seasonal privileges but the steady life of faith, granted to believers every day of the year. Far from diminishing joy, refusing man-made holy days guards it, keeping our affections anchored to what God has spoken rather than to traditions men have devised, so that our worship remains shaped by Scripture and not by sentiment.
Obviously, there is much more that could be said. One can easily consult the many “construction manuals” developed by men through the centuries, as numerous resources, old and new, attempt to trace the development of Christmas. Some, like A. W. Pink’s Xmas or various Puritan writings, (especially from the Westminster era, when man-made holy days were firmly rejected on the basis of the regulative principle,) focus on the theological issues surrounding unauthorized observances. Others explore the historical roots of Christmas practices, often attempting to link them to ancient pagan customs. Popular works such as Alexander Hislop’s The Two Babylons or Ralph Woodrow’s Babylon Mystery Religion have prompted many to rethink Christmas traditions, though their conclusions are frequently speculative, overstated, and lacking in solid historical foundation. Yet even apart from such disputed connections, the central issue remains unchanged, a point these works, in their own way, help to illustrate. Christmas arose not from Scripture but from centuries of accumulated tradition, and for that reason it deserves thoughtful examination rather than automatic acceptance.
In conclusion, I have no desire to bind another’s conscience, nor do I imagine myself above those who see these matters differently. My plea is simply that every believer would bring their practices, Christmas included, before the clear light of Scripture, and that we would seek thoughtful faithfulness in a world that presses us toward unthinking conformity. Whether one abstains or participates, every believer is called to walk thoughtfully before the Lord, testing all things by His Word, holding fast to what is good, and laying aside whatever obscures the glory of Christ. In all things, may Christ be our celebration, our joy, and our continual feast, for nothing seasonal can enhance what we already possess in Him every day. Colossians 2:10. MPJ
Postscript: Additional thoughts. Let me add a few thoughts in follow-up. Without a doubt, there are many dear saints who sincerely love Christ and yet feel hemmed in by long-standing customs that they never consciously chose. Some are only now beginning to question the legitimacy of those practices; others feel the pressure more keenly because marriage or family structures make disentangling themselves seem impossible. Not everyone is called to walk out of these traditions in the same way, or at the same pace, or under the same circumstances. I believe that the Lord leads His children along paths tailored to their particular burdens, histories, and relationships. “He shall feed his flock like a shepherd; he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those that are with young.” Isaiah 40:11.
If the believer feels grief or uncertainty because of the tension this issue creates, that very grief is often itself evidence of spiritual life, a tenderness of conscience, a desire to honor Christ even when doing so feels costly. And if some brothers or sisters see no issue with Christmas at this point, or feel no inward disturbance about it, that is perfectly alright. This is not in any sense to belittle them, for many who observe it do so with sincere affection for the Lord. Our aim is not to question their devotion but to speak simply about matters that have troubled our own consciences. This is not a hill to die on, nor a cause to separate over. We all see in part, and the Lord brings truth to each of us in His time. My intention here is simply to raise awareness, not to create suspicion or fracture fellowship.
So, to those brothers and sisters who feel the weight of this issue, take heart. Christ does not despise small beginnings, nor does He leave His sheep to wander helplessly through the maze of family expectations. May the Lord be gracious to us as we seek to follow Him as clearly, as simply, and as peacefully as we can, looking unto Christ, believing that He supplies what we lack and upholds us in our weakness. II Corinthians 12:9. The Lord knows how to preserve us when circumstances restrict the outward expression of our convictions, and all we can do is cling to Him inwardly and look to Christ for every measure of strength. Isaiah 41:10. MPJ
A few more thoughts generated by friends who commented on this post: Thank you for the kind words, brother. I regret if anything in my post sounded condemning, as that was never in my heart. I fully agree that Christ’s work is complete and perfect, and that nothing we do adds to it, nor was I suggesting that refusing Christmas makes a person more “acceptable” to God. My intention was simply to explain why the holiday troubles my mind and to offer encouragement to others who perhaps have traveled the same path. As I was thinking a bit more about this today, I can clearly see how these are, in the end, matters of conscience, places where the Lord teaches each of us in His own time and according to our own circumstances. We all as believers travel various paths in life, but at the end, we all hope to stand before God with no claim but Christ. For my wife and I, walking away from Christmas was actually quite easy, mainly because our childhoods were so hard. When the Lord began, as I hope, to open our eyes to His grace in Christ, our view of Christmas changed almost immediately. Oddly enough, it was Pink’s little booklet Xmas that sealed it for me in a moment. But honestly, there wasn’t much to overturn, we both grew up with memories of that season that were anything but joyful, and as far as relatives go, both of us had none to speak of so there was no one to offend. And honestly, my response back then probably wasn’t rooted in some noble desire to “honor” Christ. It was more a longing to flee from anything that belonged to the world’s system, to escape horrible childhood memories and to get as far away from it as I knew how. Looking back, I realize that most of my strong feelings in this area were mine alone; my wife may not have fully understood them, though she faithfully stood beside me, and I’m profoundly thankful for that. But I also recognize that, in holding to those convictions, I placed a burden on my children, especially as they formed friendships through the years, and even now as they raise little ones of their own. So yes, apart from the burdens my own children have had to navigate, I haven’t felt these issues in the same way. Seeing their difficulties has helped me understand how real and personal this struggle can be for many dear believers, and why patience and compassion are so necessary. Marc
Thank you for taking the time to write that brother. For one, I've never thought of that 'merry christmas' phrase having any reference to II John 10-11, but you have a very good point there. I’m glad you brought up your own experiences because these things really do touch believers in different ways. These are not easy situations, and every believer feels the strain of wanting to honor Christ while still loving their families and being peaceable in everyday settings. Additionally, not all of us are in identical circumstances, and we all navigate these things differently, but the Lord who knows our circumstances also gives grace for the path He’s put before each of us. I’m thankful the Lord gives wisdom in measure as we walk. As believers, we all share these same desires - to love Christ, to avoid the entanglements of this world - in whatever measure He is pleased to work in our hearts. We stumble often, but the desire to honor Him while resting in His finished work is something every child of God knows in measure. I’m grateful you received the post that way. Marc
A reply to the daughter of a dear friend and brother in Christ who is troubled about these things: I just went back to reread her post, which I first came across at work yesterday while I was on break. You know, when I read those thoughts, I was thinking to myself, is this one of my daughters that is commenting on this post? I have four of them, and they are all married, and all but one have married into the Christmas tradition. I'm certain that all my children would have a lot to share along those lines of missing out on something that is associated with so much merriment and joy. I love this thought in particular: “I married a man that loves Christmas and out of love for him we decorate and celebrate.” Wow, “out of love for him.” That chokes me up just reading it, because I know that my wife is the same way. I would never encourage her to do anything different. Whilst we can take some comfort in the fact that regardless of where we are found in this life, the LORD “knoweth our hearts” - greater still is the truth that He has ordained the very shape of our lives, where we live, whom we marry, the families we enter, and even the tensions we need to navigate. Nothing about our homes, our marriages, or our family dynamics is accidental. And with that assurance, we just try to move through life with a humble spirit, seeking to honor Christ as best we can in the circumstances and roles that He has kindly appointed for us. Let me share this, that I just shared with another friend: These things really do touch believers in different ways. These are not easy situations, and every believer feels the strain of wanting to honor Christ while still loving their families and being peaceable in everyday settings. Additionally, not all of us are in identical circumstances, and we all navigate these things differently, but the Lord who knows our circumstances also gives grace for the path He’s put before each of us. I’m thankful the Lord gives wisdom in measure as we walk. As believers, we all share these same desires - to love Christ, to avoid the entanglements of this world - in whatever measure He is pleased to work in our hearts. We stumble often, but the desire to honor Him while resting in His finished work is something every child of God knows in measure. I love you brother, Marc